The strenght of the Bezness resides in his ability to mess up women's feelings by alternatively playing the role of the romantic lover, followed by the unreachable lover.
Romantic lovers because they can't get enough of saying "I love you" among all the other romantic phrases those guys are familiar with.
Of course, there is no one and only scheme for those strange relationships, however, there is one golden rule to observe for all : the guy makes himself indispensable, by creating a strong dependancy from his victim.
Have you never heard or even thought yourself the following :
"I can't live without him anymore, I NEED to find some kind of job in Tunisia so I can live by his side forever after..."
Ok, maybe, let's forget about the forever after part, but still ..
So now, you're all wondering how on earth do I interact with those Bezness guys and not fall in love with any of them right ?
Well first, if I may give you my own, personal opinion on that matter, I would tend to say that it is very likely that couples with so many differences may even work on the long term.
The distance, the religion, culture, education and, last but not least, the constant temptation for them, with busloads of sexy creatures landing in Djerba every week.
I mean, sorry ladies, but any adult knows that sex, (yeah well, that's what it's called right?), is a considerable input to the relationship, so let me remind you all that most women that start those risky relationships tend to come every 2 or 3 month at the most, and sometimes less than that....
... so how can anyone even expect his companion to wait for whole months, and be faithful when you are not even there to satisfy his most basic needs ?
So in my opinion, one needs to be either particularly naive or else masochist to start that kind or relationship.
Maybe not masochist after all, maybe the right word would be : partner-swapper.
So as for me, I don't even try to listen to anything a Bezness guy tries to tell me, in my opinion, any and every word that comes out of his mouth is a simple lie.
ex:
- you are so beautiful
(He probably told that same phrase to a woman who could've been your grandmother the day before)
- I used to have a great car but I had to sell it so I could invest my money
(Yeah right, so why the hell do you need to borrow cigarettes for me ?).
etc...
If you want to take it to the next level, and REALLY make them go crazy, you need to show them you don't give a damn about them.
You must be indifferent to them, unavailable, don't pick up the phone when he calls, and most of all, never call back when he sends you a BIP.
Don't worry, if it is THAT important that he needs to talk to you right away, he'll call back and even put some money in his phone if necessary.
Never show your feelings on the phone, I know, it may be hard to do, especially if you have not seen him for a long time, but you need to act curtly if you expect him to need you.
Let HIM pay.
Well maybe NOT all the times, or else, YOU will now become the Beznessa, but still, since when do women have to take financial care of men ?
Oh, and never forget the following :
It is NOT because you own more money,
that you are required to pay.
